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Very, Very Sad

Question:

i want to say that i luv ur books n finished the whole serious in less than a
week!! i just wanted to ask if there waz anymore books after intensely alice
because i want to know what else happens….also when —— died it was very very
sad and i cried alot i feel like i know these peoole. all im saying is please
please dont ever stop writting about alice

Phyllis replied:

 

I know.  It was sad for me too.  You’ve read all the Alice books that there are right now, but look for Alice in Charge next June.

Posted on: August 9, 2009

He’ll Never Change

Question:
 
hey pn, i just wanted to say to the girl that girl that said his stupid mom was ruining there relationship that i know someone i know had a boyfriend like that that did what his mom siad for him to do and they didnt last she was hart brocken at first but she got over it eventually and i just want to say that if he is listening to his mom now on what to do with relationships then he will never change so i hope you take my advice to forget ride of him thx bye!!!
                              p.s. forget about him and if he doesnt want things to work and listens to is mommy then leave him please take my advice thanks
Phyllis  replied:
 
Thanks for your input on her question.

Posted on: August 4, 2009

Long Live Alice!

Question:

 

My older sister had introduced me to your books 5 years ago. And I have to tell you those books have changed my life personally. The way you write.. well i can’t put it to words. I cannot wait until the Summer of 2010(: your so talented and gifted and your no doubt my favorite author. honestly, sometimes i fantasize of having a life like Alice. To be one of her close friends such as Pamela and Elizabeth. anyways i hope im not getting to carried away. I love your books. LONG LIVE ALICE! iloveyou!

Phyllis replied:

I’m just delighted that you enjoy the books so much.   Writing the Alice books has been one of the most enoyable projects too, for me, that I’ve ever done.

Posted on: August 4, 2009

Why?

Question:

hi! i have a few questins.
1.why does alice always have embarrasing moments?
2.i’ve read alice alone, but i still don’t understand why elizabeth quit piano.
3.what book comes after achingly alice?
                 p.s i love the books!!!

Phyllis replied:

 

1)  Don’t we all?   2)  I wish I had time right now to leaf through “Alice  Alone” and see why she wanted to quit piano, but I don’t.  Maybe readers can help me out on this, but I think she was remembering how her parents had urged her to be friendly with a friend of theirs who, unknown to them, was molesting Liz, and now, she was reliving the memory of that when her Mom urged her to take piano lessons with a new teacher.  He wasn’t molesting her, but the memory of her mom’s urging brought back previous memories .  3)  Alice on the Outside follows Achingly Alice.

Posted on: August 1, 2009

His Stupid Mom is Ruining Things Again

Question:

 

 

Hi Phyllis, I’m the girl who contacted you about 2 months ago regarding my first break up, mostly due to his mom, and I took your suggestion to wait a month before sending a friendly email. It worked. Well, at first. His birthday was a couple weeks ago and i sent him a friendly “happy birthday” email, and he seemed really happy to hear from me. We started talking again, and we clicked instantly and were getting along so well, it almost seemed like we never broke up. He even asked if I wanted to hang out, so we set up a day, but of course his stupid mom has to ruin it again. She gets all freaked out because he had told her were talking again (which he didn’t really want to tell her) and she made it almost impossible for me to see him. And after that now he won’t answer my texts or calls, I sent him an email asking if we were still friends and he said, “No it’s fine, no hard feelings”. But he won’t talk to me besides that, and it seems like he always rejects my calls & texts whenever his mom gets involved. It really hurts because I know he still likes me, but his stupid mom is really ruining it. I wish I could just get over it because I know she isn’t gonna change, and nothing I do is ever gonna please her, but it just bugs me that we really were starting to reunite and she’s caused me a lot of unnecessary trouble.. I just wish there was some kind of way I could just see him again, but I don’t know what to do.  I guess I just needed someone to vent to, thanks for listening.
 
 
Phyllis replied:
I guess the questions in my mind are these:  1) Is there some special reason his mom dislikes you so much, or is she trying to keep him away from all girls?  2)  He actually tells you the reason he can’t hang out with you is his mom?  3)  Why would you want to hang out with a guy who is so dominated by his mother that he can’t even email a girl?  Why do I get an “eeeuuuu” reaction to this guy?
Posted on: August 1, 2009

What Name Do You Prefer?

Question:

Dear Mrs. Naylor,
 
I remember one reader asking about whether it was okay to call you by your first name – I often wonder what various adults like to be called; some absolutely hate being called by their formal names (Mr., Mrs., Ms., etc.) and others can’t stand to have kids – or even other grown-ups – call them by their first names. Others, of course, don’t care, or just have a slight preference. What do you WANT to be called? I wonder.

 

Phyllis replied:

 

I truly don’t care:  Phyllis, Mrs. Naylor, Phyllis Naylor–whatever works for you.

Posted on: August 1, 2009

The Wiccan Religion

Question:


Here is the Wiccan belief system in a nutshell.
    Wicca is an earth based religion. Most worship the Goddess and the God who are both equals. The main rule that we live by is ” Harm none, do what you will.”, which translates into living your life as peacefully as possible. Wiccans believe in the Threefold Law, it is the belief that whatever energy you send you get back. So if you give out negative energy you get negative energy back and vice versa. Regarding magic, just forget anything that you have seen on TV or read. Magic is considered a sacred act that brings you closer to deity. We will not try to convert you, as their are many paths to the same destination. Most Wiccans believe in reincarnation, though because it is a very individualized religion this belief differs slightly. We celebrate eight Sabbats, or holidays a year, and also celebrate Estbats which are celebrated when the Moon is full. (Sorry it wasn’t exactly brief)

Thanks for the advice concerning my friend, and you’re right, I just want her to accept me as me. The next time we have a quiet moment I will try to explain to her thank you so much for your help.

Phyllis replied:

Thank you for describing the Wiccan beliefs for our readers.

Posted on: August 1, 2009

The Girl Who Feels Left Out

Question:

 

I was reading the letter about the girl who feels left out when her friends fawn over their boyfriends. I love the advice you gave. 
I have been my own best friend for many years. Generally, I like it, but sometimes it gets lonely. I do all sorts of activities and things, but I’ve never found someone who really clicks. Why do you think this is? 
& I also really liked the way you dealt with religion in intensely alice- not taking sides at all. 

Phyllis replied:

When you say “someone,” are we talking  boyfriend or girlfriend?  Since I don’t know you, I have no answers as to why nothing has “clicked,” but I also don’t know how long you’ve been hoping to meet someone.  Sometimes you have to ask yourself if things seem to go all right when you first meet and then the other person cools, or if the other person seems to like you more than you like him/her, or vice versa.  If  this has been going on for a long time, do you know any friend close enough whom you could ask if you have some correctible trait or habit you could work on?  Thank you for your email.  I do appreciate it.

Posted on: August 1, 2009

Alice Seems So Real

 

Question:

 

 i love how alice seems so real and you’re the only writer who really understands kids and teens!!!! i love ur books!!!! ive read almost all the alice books and love them!!! keep writing!!!!!

 

Phyllis replied:

 

Thank you, but actually there are a lot of writers who understand kids and teens, but I’m grateful that you like my books so much.

Posted on: July 31, 2009

I’m Afraid to Tell my Close Friend

Question:

 

I love your Alice books. I usually don’t read a lot of realistic fiction because it is normally extremely unrealistic, for the most part I read fantasy/sci-fi/horror because you know going into it that it is unrealistic. Reading the Alice books is like reading someone’s life-story, it is very realistic. I’ve been reading your books since 6th grade, this year I’m entering 9th grade and I will continue reading your books for many years to come.
   I wanted to let you know that I really enjoyed the topic of religion in Intensely Alice. The majority of YA books either ignore religion or religion is part of the storyline/plot. I liked how you showed both sides of the story concerning religion. I’m Wiccan and my views are different than many. I have been practicing for over a year and have only told my parents (who are fine with it) and few very close friends. I’m scared to tell my one close friend because she has voiced her opinion before about what she thinks about pagans. I would like to be honest with her, but I don’t want to ruin our friendship, especially before the start of school, it would make school even more stressful. I would really appreciate it if you could help me with this, I need some third-party advice.

Thank you so much for writing such wonderful books,

 

Phyllis replied:

I’m glad to hear you liked my treatment of religion in “”Intensely Alice.”  Regarding your own religious views, (and it might be helpful to our readers if you briefly described the Wiccan beliefs), you need to focus on what it is that gives it meaning and how it enriches your life.  I would come at it from this angle when discussing it with my friend.  You also need to be clear on why it is you want to tell your  friend.  I assume it’s because you feel close to her and want her to accept you for who you are.  Perhaps you could start the conversation by simply telling her how you hope you can tell her anything–that you respect her and her beliefs and have no intention of trying to convince her to become Wiccan.  That may set her mind at ease and enable her to discuss religion with you–hers and yours; perhaps you’ll each come to understand the other better.

Posted on: July 31, 2009

 

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