Don’t Know What To Do

Question:

I JUST GOTTA SAY UR BOOOKS ARE BEYOND AHH-MAZING N I DONT KNOW WHY THERE NOT BEST SELLERS SUCKS THAT MANY PEOPLE RATHER DO ALL SORTS OF THINGS BUT NOT HAVE THE TIME TO PICK UP A BOOK N READ IT LOL YA I HAVE TWO QUESTIONS FIRST ONE IS WHEN UR DONE WITH THE ALICE BOOKS WHAT ARE U GNNA DO I MEAN LIKE REALLY EVERYONE GNNA BE SAD WHEN THERE DONE WITH THE LAST PAGE OF THE LAST ALICE SERIES…….MY OTHER QUESTION IS ABOUT A GUY…

OKAY SO THIS IS GUY IS BEYOND AHH–MAZING I CAN TALK TO HIM ABOUT ANYTHING I USSUALY TALK TO HIM AT MIDNIGHT TILL LIKE TWO IN THE MORNING AND LAST NIGHT I WAS CRYING OVER THE PHONE CAUSE A COUPLE DAYS AGO HE ALL YA I DIDNT CALL CAUSE I DONT REALLY HANG AROUND THAT PARK N I WAS LIKE BUT YOU WERE JSUT THERE A COUPLE DAYS AGO AND HE ALL YA N I HANG UP CAUSE I THOUGHT HE WAS GNNA CALL N HANG OUT WITH ME AND ALL THEN I FINNALY GOT THE GUTS N CALL HIM CAUSE HE WASNT CALLING( LATER ON I FOUND OUT HE LOST MY NUMBER=P) N WE TALK N I WAS CRYING N HE ALL WHATS WRONG WHATS WRONG U KNOW U CAN TELL ME N I WAS LIKE YA I KNOW N I DIDNT KNOW WHAT TO SAY CAUSE REALLY WHAT I REALLY WANTED TO TELL HIM IS THAT I LIKE HIM ALOT AND I DONT KNOW HOW U FEEL BUT I WANT U TO FEEL THE SAME BUT INSTEAD I TOLD HIM SOME OTHER ISSIUE I WAS HAVING N HE DID HELP OUT N IT AHH-MAZES ME CAUSE I WAS ALWAYS ASKING FOR A GOOD FRINED AND IM JUST SO GLAD I HAVE HIM NOW I ALL I NEED IS A GOOD GAL-FRINED TO TALK ABOUT GUYS TO ALL MY GAL FRINEDS DITCH ME( THINK I EMAIL U ABOUT THAT BEFORE N THANKS FOR THE ADIVSE ON THAT) BUT I JSUT DONT WANT TO BE FRINRDS WITH HIM I WANT IT TO BE MORE AND I DONT KNOW WHAT TO TELL HIM DO I TELL HIM I LIKE HIM, KEEP IT TO MYSELF AND JUST STICK TO WHAT I HAVE, FRESHMEN YEAR GNNA SUCK FOR ME NO FRIENDS TO START OUT WITH NOT EVEN HIM SENCE HE BE GONE FIRST 6PMONTHS( N I KNOW I WORRY TO MUCH) …..I KNOW THIS MESSAGE CAN BE A LIL CONFUSING BUT THANKS FOR UR HELP

LOVE YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Phyllis replied:

I can understand your feelings, but yes, I think you worry too much. You’re already worried about your freshman year and it’s only July. I’m afraid you might be coming across as too needy to this guy…calling at midnight, crying, wanting him to like you as much as you like him, even though you don’t say it in so many words. The thing is, you really can’t make someone like you more than they do just by getting them to say the words. It’s good that you can talk to him and he seems like a good listener, but if you feel him backing off, it’s probably because you seem a high-maintenance type of person–you require more emotion of him than he wants to give right now. If you felt more secure yourself, and had more things to talk about that were interesting, that would be the best way to keep friends, both guys and girls.

Posted on: July 10, 2010