I Don’t Have a Crush on Him!

Question:

Your books are amazing!! I need some advice so there is this guy I was friends with him kindergarten through 2nd grade and I KNOW I don’t have a crush on him but I keep thinking about him!!! Some people say I flirt with him well if I am I don’t see it!!! Anyway some people think he likes me maybe he does I don’t know we talk if were seated next to each other but other then that we don’t really mingle but every time I am trying to explain something to my friends that has something and I need a boy for example he is the first to pop in my head itz crazy!!!! I use to like his bestfriend itz sooo frusterating I try to keep him out of my head but he just pops back in but if I KNOW I don’t have any feelings for him why do I keep thinking about him???? Sorry i’m treating u like a therepist LOOOOVVVEEDD Intensley Alice by the way

Phyllis replied:

Hey, gals: Isn’t it possible to LIKE a guy and find him INTERESTING or FUNNY without having a crush on him? Sometimes we just want to be around interesting or amusing or intelligent or shocking people, not because we think of them romantically but because we find them fascinating.

Posted on: August 11, 2009