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I Never Finish My Stories

Question:

I know you get this a lot, but its amazing how many books you have written. i love all your alice, and shiloh books, and I’m starting to focus on your other books.

Writing is another hobby of mine, and I have written a lot of stories too, the only problem is, I never finish them, not one, and sometimes i mix up my characters from one story to another. does that ever happen to you?
Phyllis replied:
No, I don’t have that particular problem, perhaps because I always know how a book will end before I begin.  It’s a good idea to know not only how a story will begin and how it will end, but what the climax will be.  You don’t have to know every single thing that will happen, but you really should know this much.  As far as mixing characters from one story or book to another, there’s no harm in that.  Other authors do that from time to time.
Posted on: August 23, 2010

10 year-olds already know about this stuff

Question:

dear mrs naylor i am a fan of your books and i love to look for edvise on your blog but most people would say that your book Intensley alice is some how a turning point from her acting like herself because part about the park bench and they woudn’t  want 10 and 11 year olds reading the newer books but 1and 10 year olds already know about this stuff from tv ,books ,older kids taking about it. i’m an 11 year old and my mom already knows that i read all of the alice books and she is fine with and a lot of kids that i kmow are alredy reading books more that has more than your book i will always Red heartRed heartRed heartthe alice books.

Phyllis replied:

 

I haven’t had any complaints from readers about Alice not  being herself because of what she and Patrick were doing on the park bench.  Alice is growing older, the situations are more sophisticated, and the age level on the book, as determined by the publisher, is “14 and up.”  If your mom is fine with your reading the Alice books, then I am too.

Posted on: August 23, 2010

A HUGE fan

 
Question:

Hi mrs.naylor.
I have read like all of your alice books.

i hope you never stop writing them.

im like a HUGE fan of Alice.

it’s like i really am Alice!

Phyllis replied:

 

I love knowing there are fans like you.  

Posted on: August 23, 2010

Subsidized Publishing

Question:
Hi, I was wondering what you thought of having a book subsidized?  See, I was going to send in my story to a publishing company called Dorance Publishing because they said they wanted to review it and possibly publish it. Then I find out that this is a subsidy publishing place. The author has to pay the publisher, and they also said in their handbook that they sent me that the books they publish rarey sell well at all. They print a certain number of books, and in the rare chance that they sell out and someone wants to order more, the author has to purchase more books. They said that they publish manuscripts mainly for the authors satisfaction of seeing their work in print, and also that they publish most manusripts that are sent to them. If my book is published, I want it to be because it’s good and the publisher thinks it will sell. I want it to be by a reputable publishing company , but Dorance publishing says that most reputable publishing companies don’t bother with manuscripts from unknown authors. Is that true? Wasn’t every established author an unknown when they started?
My question is, would you reccommend that I send my manuscript in to this publishing company who admits that even if they publish my story, it’s likey that no one will ever buy it? Should I start with having my first book subsidized, or just go straight to the better known publishing companies? Thanks for your time.
Phyllis replied:

They are being honest with you, and of course you want your book to be published because somebody thinks it’s worth investing in it–not because you pay them.   Although a very few people have hit the best seller list with a book that started out as a “self-published” book, the authors put an enormous amount of their own money and time and effort to drive around the country taking it to bookstores and talking it up.  I don’t recommend that you pay to have your book published.  I asked my editor how any new writer today can get a start if publishers only want manuscripts that are submitted by agents, and if agents only want to represent authors with track records.  (How do you get a track record if you can’t get published?)  She said that the best way is to carefully choose a publisher by reading up on which companies want which kinds of books, studying the books in your library to see which companies publish the kind of book you write, find the name of the editor and the address of the company in the most recent edition of “Writers’ Handbook,” found in the reference rooms of public libraries, and then write to the editor, a brief letter telling him/her a very short description of your book, how you got the idea if it’s unusual or required specific research, and ask if he/she would like to see it.  If the editor replies that she would, then you can send it in with a letter saying that she requested to see it, and that should get it in the “to read” pile.  I know this is discouraging, but there are more and more people on this earth and fewer and fewer books being published, because of the economic downturn, and more and more people wanting to write.  In the meantime, join a critique group, or a creative writing class, enter every writing competition you possibly can, and keep improving your writing on your own.  If you truly love to write, you will probably keep writing whether you are published or not, but I’ll keep my fingers crossed for you.

Posted on: August 23, 2010

These People Already Hate Me

Question:
I am an avid reader of your books and finished Alice in Charge a few weeks ago. I read it in about three days, and absolutely loved it. I have asked you for advice in the past and it has always been very helpful, so here i go again: I will be starting 9th grade in a week, and I am so nervous, my stomach is curling in. I am going to be a Freshman, which is the bottom of the pack, and that just sucks. Not only that but a few of the upper classmen hate me for a mistake I made (involving telling a sophmore my undieing love for him, just to find out he had a very serious girlfriend. She told everyone I was trying to break them up and she still glares at me whenever I walk past her, and others call me names like slut and such.) I don’t know what to do, I don’t want to start highschool being hated but these people already hate me without a doubt. I want to enjoy highschool but i have a feeling it is going to be a nightmare.

Phyllis replied:

 

That’s a rough way to begin high school, I know.  Like many other mistakes, you can’t undo it, and probably at this point an apology wouldn’t help.  About all you can do  is make new friends–which you will–who don’t know anything about your mistake.  Avoid the girlfriend who “hates” you, definitely avoid her boyfriend, and if people ask you about the “slut” slur, should it follow you into high school, just tell them you made a mistake of acting boy-crazy to the wrong guy, and you aren’t about to do it again.  If you clean up your act and don’t repeat it, the memory of it will fade.  High school’s a big place…

Posted on: August 23, 2010

“I Like Him, He Likes Her”

Question:

I haven’t written to you in forever! I hope your summer is going by well. i just thought about emailing you because i just got Alice in Charge from my library and i am so excited to read it! I have loved your Alice books since some girls in my fifth grade class introduced them to me during quiet reading, im going to be a sophomore in high school now! Anyway, last weekend i had my cousin over and she saw “I like him, he likes her” on my book shelf (which by the way, was a great deal! I am so happy you decided to put those three together) she asked if it was a good book and i explained that it was really 3 books in a series of 25 (or more?) books! i think a lot of people don’t realize that. Anyway, i gave her “alice on the outside” to read first so she had some backup info and she read it in 2 days! I am so happy i finally have someone to talk with about these books! (im not sure if those girls from elementary school still read them). I really want to thank you for creating Alice, she is such a great character. Oh, and thanks for that advise about going into high school last year, you probably don’t remember but it really helped! Thanks again!

Phyllis replied:

Those “bind-ups” as we call them in the trade (several books bound together as one) seem to be very popular, my editor tells me, and I’m so glad you discovered “I Like Him, He Likes Her.”  The next bind up to come out will be the three Alice books of her sophomore year, called “It’s Not Like I Planned it This Way,” and the three books of junior year will be called, “Please Don’t Be True.”  We haven’t got to the bind-up of her senior year yet.   It’s good that readers will be able to purchase all three books, as one, in a large paperback edition.

Posted on: August 23, 2010

I’m Still Here!

TO MY READERS

From Phyllis:

I’m behind in answering your emails, I know, and will try to do at least a few a day.  I’m getting ready to go to  Tulsa for some talks there  August 27 -29 (check with the Tulsa Public library for time and place), have been working hard on a revision of the Alice book coming out next year, and–just when I thought things were going OK–got a leak in our apartment, so that floorboards have been torn up, a carpet removed in my office, and I’m typing this surrounded by five file cabinets at various angles.  I also have been revising the very last Alice book to come out in 2013, wanting to make sure that the books I write in between will flow neatly into that final book.   Thank you all for your patience.  I read every one of your emails and answer them myself.

Posted on: August 22, 2010

Feeling Guilty

Question:

Hey PN, I was wondering, do we know if Alice and her friends ever masturbated? I thought it hinted once but I was not sure. Also, do you know for sure whether or not Lester is a virgin. We know he was “entertaining Crystal” in his father’s bedroom once but that could be a lot of things. I know people say it’s normal for teenagers but I am getting really annoyed that I am horny or in the mood all the time. I feel guilty doing myself because it makes me feel wrong and dirty. Plus it doesn’t always feel that good. Sometimes it hurts. I wanted to try a vibrator but I’m only 16. Plus if my parents ever found it I would be in so much trouble. So what do you think? Is it ok to please yourself like that? And if you don’t mind, have you ever done it?

 

Phyllis replied:

It is so normal that not only teenagers but little children, half-grown up children, and grown-ups masturbate occasionally.   Yes, Alice and her friends masturbate, but please don’t ask me to find the book and the page number.  It’s been mentioned from time to time.  And though it’s never been said for certain, it would be very unusual for Lester at age 25 (I’ve forgotten exactly how old he is now) was still a virgin.  Teenagers are suddenly overwhelmed with hormonal issues, and it’s not at all uncommon to feel sexually excited much of the time.  You are not “wrong” or “bad” or “dirty” or “unhealthy” to masturbate, but I certainly would not do anything that hurts, and would not recommend a vibrator. 

 

Posted on: August 4, 2010

The Right Guy?

Question:

hello phyllis! i’ve been a long time reader of alice! i love your books so much, i’ve been trying to get an alice book to get my little sister hooked into it now since she hates to read overall…. haha! and i know for SURE she’ll get hooked into this as much as i had! haha! 😀
well, i was wondering if you can give me an opinion of what has been going on in my life. i have known my friend (let’s call him Andy) Andy for a long time, since 7th grade. he and i got very close and dated in our freshman year for a month and broke up, which was not about eachother, he had a family situation. (he’s actually my first bf and i had my second one in junior year, so overall i’ve only had 2 boyfriends my whole life). we continued to be good friends throughout that year until he moved away in the middle of our sophomore year. we lost contact until our senior year came up. we’ve been hanging out so much and practically spent all of our holidays together, went on trips together, and even met each others family! and then, we fell in love….
i have never been with someone that i was so comfortable around before, and he’s the only one that can get me out of my comfort zone. he tells me everything and we spend a lot of time together. but once he got accepted to a University far away, we decided that the best thing to do is to break up. we didn’t want to, but it felt right. what i hear from him is that he’s scared of not having a relationship work when we’re so far and there could be frustration that may arise, and that he’s scared of statistic relationships, that freshman couples usually break up around Thanksgiving…
For MY reason, i feel very inexperienced… im actually afraid that since i’ve only had 2 bfs in my life then what if i wonder about other relationships that i could have? i mean, i don’t think of that when i’m with him but, i was watching the “glee” show which showed this guy who married his wife and then they divorced and he started going out with this girl who says that he’s only been with his high school sweetheart his whole life and what if he’s curious about his bachelor-like side. i know getting things from a show may sound crazy, but i like to find morals from movies or shows and the things that they’re trying to tell us and think about my own life.
Andy, i will say, is a very handsome, smart, and charismatic person. he’s dated A LOT of girls before and after me, and then… dated me again… loL! and sometimes i feel like, what if he’s gone through so many relationships that he “perfected” himself. i know there’s no such thing as perfect, but i’m just saying that what if he went through so much that he knows how to deal with dating situations or something… we’re only 18, and i really do feel like i shouldn’t feel too committed just yet. i love him to the point where i think i COULD, but i feel like i want to do things in my life NOW so i could be ready for the real thing for him, that is, if we love each other enough to give each other a 3rd try in the future.
my sister is always telling me “But why did you guys break up for?! you know long distant relationships could work!”
i do feel that he could be too good for me, personality wise and looks…so i was only wondering if you think she is right about a working long distant relationship and if you think my reason for not being together throughout our college years apart is ok… thanks so much for reading! i will appreciate it so much!

Phyllis replied:

 

I’m not sure what you mean about “I do feel that he could be too good for me…”  Are you saying that perhaps you’re not “good enough” for him?  It sounds to me as though the two of you have a strong relationship, and I don’t see why you have to break up.  But I do think that while you are far away from each other, and only 18, you should also have the understanding that you can each go out with other people.  Yes, it’s risky.  Yes, it’s possible that one of you will find someone who suits you even more.  But the bigger risk, I think, is not giving yourselves the chance to explore the big wide world of other people.  You can’t date even a small percentage of the available men out there, of course.  But by going out with others, you will be able to identify more and more strongly what you want in a mate, what traits annoy you or are unacceptable, what kind of person brings out the best in you.  And it could very well happen that after a few years of staying in contact with each other, but dating other people, you will love each other even more, and feel more certain about commitment.

Posted on: August 4, 2010

The Next Alice Book

Question:
your books rock, pretty much. theyre like my drug!i bring them home from the library and hide them from my older sister who would dismiss them as silly girly books(which i dont like) and make fun of me.
but i love them. theyre just a perfect balance of being true to real life happenings and lifelong lessons and hints at things we girls need to know and even a little spice of that unrealistic version of things we all need in books. (like alice’s relationship with patrik, or setting up Ms. summers)
so i’ll keep on reading them if you keep on making them.I’m 15 and been reading since i was like 13. when i was 13 i brought home all these girly series that i slowly dropped as i matured and realized theyre just stupidities. but yours i just cant let go of!
anyways i have this paranoia of you making another Alice book without my knowledge. maybe you could create this email list of girls who need to know when the next comes out?it would be awesome. letsay i would forget to check your website or something-ahhhhhhhh!i need to know when it comes out, and this would give me the peace of mind that i will be the first to reserve it at the library-Please, Please , Please?! i’m sure all the fans would appreciate it.
well anyways keep on pounding out those pages and producing them!!!!!!
i heart alice!!
rock on

Phyllis replied:

 
I’m delighted to know you love the books so much.  But really, it’s all I can do to keep writing the Alice books.  I couldn’t possibly keep a list of  readers who need to be told when the next book will be published.  All you need to know, however, is that a new Alice book comes out every June.  That is, every June until 2013, when the very last book in the series will be published, “Always Alice.”
Posted on: August 4, 2010

 

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