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How Can I Say it Nicely?

Question:
Ok first off I love your books,Alice is like one of my best friends.But I have a problem at school.Its my first year at the middle school and Im in 7th grade.I have a fair amount of friends and Im not too worried about that because Im new here.But there is this boy in my 4th period,lets call him Daniel,that I went out with for about 3 days.I just met him this year and he asked me out and I said yes because he is just a goofball like me.But I broke up with him because I cant get over my last boyfriend,plus nobody wanted to hang out with me because I hung out with Daniel,and he was extremely clingy and wouldnt leave me alone.I told him that I would sit by him at lunch sometimes but I was gonna sit by other people too.But he KEEPS sitting by me and he keeps telling me that he still likes me and I still like him but whats the point?Middle school relationships suck and they never last.I wish he would just leave me alone so I could make some other friends as well but no one really wants to hang out with me because Im friends with Daniel.What should I say to nicely let him know I’d like some space??

Phyllis replied:

Sometimes, unfortunately, “nicely” just doesn’t work.   It may be that you’re going to have to tell him, in private, that you don’t want to sit with him any longer, that it’s time you both hung out with different people.  Or, if you really still like him, you might say that you don’t want to sit with him more than once a week.  But with some people, it’s “all or nothing,” and he might find it easier, though more painful, not to hang out with you at all than limit it to once a week.  And because you’re still kind to him, obviously, and trying not to hurt him, he may not believe that you need space, that it is a compliment to you that he always wants to sit with you, which, of course, it is, but a clingy boyfriend is hard to take.  (Alice experienced that, as you know, with  Sam).  I’m afraid you’ll have to be more direct and to the point, and I hope it works.
Posted on: September 24, 2009

Are You Writing the Next One?

Question:

 
Wow! I loved Intensely Alice! Its a great book!
And I now that the Alice serious cant go on forever
but there such great books I cant help but
ask if you are writing the next one?
And I hope you will be!

 

Phyllis replied:

 

Yes, I just finished writing “Alice in Charge” and I’m working on revising it.  It will come out next June.

Posted on: September 24, 2009

So Excited I Could Stop Breathing!

Question:
Hi! I am a huge fan of the Alice series. I know everyone says that, But i read them every single day. I am kind of fast, so I finish 2 a day. My mom just ordered a few, and i am so exited i could stop breathing!
Phyllis replied:
 
Please keep breathing!  But I don’t know how you get through two Alice books per day.  Wish my eyes held out that long.
Posted on: September 24, 2009

How Do You Think It All UP?

Question:

Omg. It is so weird to be writing to the best author EVER!!!! I know you get thousands of emails like these each day, but I sincerely mean it from the bottom of my heart, THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR WRITING THESE ABSOLUTELY INCREDIBLE BOOKS!!! They’ve made my life easier.
     Pam’s parents are going through a rocky divorce same as mine are, in the grooming of Alice somebody died (I’m not saying who in case someone hasn’t read it yet) same as someone close to me did, I’ve had to move, I’ve had embarassing expierences, etc. Some embarassing stuff has been answered too (questions everyone has about sex and bodies and life.)
     I completely see myself in all the characters in the book. Parents tend to think that kids in junior high (in Canada where I’m from it’s grade 7 8 9 not 6 7 8) are so innocent and they still have so much to live for. We are not as innocent as people think. Yes, we have tonnes to live for, but seriously….we experience SO MUCH of it in jr. high.
     Now for the question part lol!! How do you keep all the events in the books in order? I get confused just reading them sometimes haha!!! But seriously…I think that you are the best author ever. I know that you base a lot of what happens in these books on your own experiences, but the rest of it…how do you think it all up?? And how do you know so much about bodies and everything? I know tha tyou probably took sex ed in school and that you’re a married woman….I guess my real question is, how do you write so well about it without making it seem that Pam Al and Liz aren’t hormonal crazed , minds-only-on-sex girls?
     I know you won’t have time to answer all these questions but if you read this, thank you so much. I feel very priveledged to be able to email you like this. I love how you encorporate technology in the books too. I can’t say one bad thing about these books!! Oh btw why do some of the earlier Alice books say ages 14 up and then some say ages 12 and up? e.g. Alice on her way and Alice in the know. Just wondering. Thanks Mrs. Nayor!!

Phyllis replied:

I guess all I can say is that the things I write about come naturally to me, and I have a really good memory of what I was thinking about and worrying about all through my teen years.  (And every other year).  I’ve been in enough gym classes to know that girls’ body parts can be quite different, girl to girl, and I’ve read enough books and articles to know just how much girls worry about these differences.  And, having been married for 49 years to one man (and five years before that to another), I guess you could say I know a bit about sex. 

As for your other questions, the publisher decides what age level to put on the inside of the dust jacket.  And sometimes, in a new edition of a book, they decide the book is meant for older teens, and they change it from 12 – 14  to 14 and up.  As for keeping things straight from book to book, that is a constant problem for me and especially for the copy editor.  Finally the publisher asked the copy editor to make a “book,” or “bible,” as the editor calls it, listing all the characters, what they look like, what their houses look like, their parents’ first names, their love lives, what gifts they received and from whom, what they wore each Halloween, their religion, as well as listing major events in each book, and–in a special section–all the mistakes I’ve made from one book to another and which will probably never be corrected.  (I think I’ve given Alice three different birth dates).  Each year the Alice “bible,” as we call this book, is reprinted with new information in it.  Only my editors and I have copies of it, but it’s the only thing that keeps the stories “somewhat” straight.  I keep telling my editor that they should officially publish this “bible” after the series ends, but nobody’s said anything about that yet.

Posted on: September 24, 2009

How Do You Come Up With Story Lines?

Question:

 

i am 15 years old.  I am absolutely in love with all of the alice books, and own every single one of them.  I am so eager for the next one to come out! 

I have some questions, comments, and thoughts that i would like to share with you.  First of all, i wanted to say how much your books have helped me through a rough time.  When i was 12 years old, i was diagnosed with a type of Leukemia (just like Molly).  I fought so hard for two years and finally beat it.  Whenever i was feeling upset, or when i was coming home from Chemo every day, feeling nauseous and pissed at the world, i would pick up one of your books and read them.  Obviously, i am in remission now, but i still sometimes don’t quite feel myself.  Reading your Alice books has taken my mind off of my illness and made me happy (something that was not easy to do).  Thank you so, so, much.

I wanted to know how many more alice books you are going to make.  I really don’t think you should stop.  I think you should actually continue with her through her twenties.  I would love to be able to “grow up” with her.  another question: how do you come up with the story lines?! they’re pure gold!

Phyllis replied:

I’m so happy that you are in remission.  I have friends who have gone through chemo, and know a little of what that is like.  I wish I could continue Alice forever, but the last book is already written, and all I have to do now is write the books in between!  I guess I’ve sort of “grown up” with Alice too–as her mom–and I simply put myself in her place, with her family in mind, with her background, and try to imagine what her life would involve next.   Then I write about it.  Readers keep sending me things they want me to write about–have her try drugs, make her diabetic, get her pregnant, etc.  The ideas have to come from me, and Alice can’t be “every” girl.  She already has a formed personality, a formed family, relationships with friends, her own values, and I can only have her do what I feel would be natural in her circumstances.  I’m delighted that the books have helped you in any way, and send my very best wishes!

Posted on: September 23, 2009

False Information

Question:
I am Nolan Hutchins Grade 6 at Crocket Middle School in Paris,TX and I want to tell you that there is faulse info in your book The Fear Place  you said was that cats can senes fear they can’t  dogs can.
Phyllis replied:
Thanks for pointing that out to me.  I wish I’d had you to consult when I wrote that book, but I should have researched it better on my own.

Posted on: September 23, 2009

Planning a Wedding

Question:
i love ur alice books but i forgot my favorite book! could u please tell me what book it is when alice for puberty class has to plan a wedding its just a preparation though)
Phyllis replied:
 
Alice in Lace

Posted on: September 22, 2009

Cover Girls

Question:
i have read your books ever since fifth grade and i hope you continue on writing the books as long as you live. I was wondering are you when is the photo girl for your older books coming back . i really liked her and i hope she could be in future covers. are you going to show pamela or elizabeth or gwen in any other cover, too???

Phyllis replied:

 

The current trend is not to show faces on covers.  The girls who posed before are probably in their 20’s by now.

Posted on: September 22, 2009

Don’t Kill Lester!

Question:
 
I love alice books so much!!! Its one of the only series I can read over and over again and feel something like I’m there! When I finished intensely alice and was crying so hard, when I read about —— I actually had to put the book down, stupid I know but he was one of my favorite characters. I really love how I can connect with the story and feel like all the questions I’m embarassed to ask are answered. I hope they never end! I cannot wait for alice in change! But please dont kill of lester he’s my favorite character [right after alice of course] :). Thank you for writing a awesome book long live you and alice 🙂
 
Phyllis replied:
 
I’m very fond of Lester too.  He’s not going to die on my watch.
Posted on: September 22, 2009

Thanks

 

Question:

thankss for making so many of our livess a little bit cheerier

 

Phyllis replied:

 Well, some readers would tell you I’ve made them cry, but I hope I’ve given you a good balance.  If you were never sad, you wouldn’t enjoy being happy so much, would you?

Posted on: September 22, 2009

 

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